Decide what you want. Decide exactly what you want in each part of your life. Become a "Meaningful specific, rather than a wondering generality".
Write it down, clearly and in detail. Always think on paper. A goal that is not in writing is not a goal at all. It is merely a wish and it has no energy behind it.
Make a list of everything that you can think of that you are going to have to do to achieve yours. When you think of a new task and actively, write them on your list until your list is complete.